I hate saying I have "expectations" or "requirements" with what I want in my future boyfriend/lover. Too many girls (actually guys too) say they want THIS in a girl, THAT in a guy, et cetera. For me, those are all just bonuses or a plus, but not a standard. Sure I'd love a guy who can sing or dance, but I'm not going to automatically pass up a guy just because he doesn't do those. Sure I'd love a guy to watch a sunset with on the beach, or to just stay in having our own little movie night, but I don't want to have a "list" of requirements. Really, if males had their lists too of everything they wanted in a girl, I know I'd definitely fall short on every list out there.
The only qualifications I would expect is love, respect, trust, honesty... all those kind of traits. Because I highly doubt a relationship would work without those anyways.
Want me to make a list though of what I believe are pluses? (Just sayin').
I love those who are expressive through written words, with an ability to use their pen in creative writing. Personally, being the artistic person that I am, guys with a passion in art, singing, dancing, writing, bboying, photography, or anything else in the creative field is a HUGE plus for me. A guy who can cook, just because I'd rather stay in with a home-made meal than constantly go out spending money to eat at restaurants. I definitely love a guy who can appreciate the simple aspects of life, like cheesy gifts, going to the beach in the summer to see the sun go down, taking me to parks, the aquarium, downtown Seattle...
That's too much to ask though. Which is why I again say, these are BONUSES, not expectations.
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