Wow, I agree with this video so much, it's crazy. This is actually a real big reason on why I don't want to date while in high school. A lot of people think I'm crazy for viewing matters in this way, with marriage in mind for dating, but that's the exact thing--marriage is NOT in my mind at this age. I'm so young and have so much to experience (not in love life, but life in general). And exactly BECAUSE of that, I don't want to date. Even with Pogo, even though I really like him, I don't want that commitment of a relationship or to be tied down. There's a real legit reason behind my so-called "odd" promise to myself to not want a boyfriend during high school, maybe even college.
But yeah, that video explains it all really well. A MUST-watch.
I told myself that I didn't want a boyfriend either-that I'm not ready for the commitment or anything along those lines. (this is why it took me 8mnths to have gian as my boyfriend.) Because, my crushes doesn't develop easily as other girls, who tend to talk about boys 24/7. I rememeber being just like you, so this touched me (: I always guarded my heart. But than I realize, you can't really help falling in love.. you don't control the people you walk into you're life. Your mind tells you not to-that love is stupid and dangerous. That we are plunging into a world of nothing we know of, with our eyes closed. It's dangerous. That we're too young. But you're heart tells you too branch out. And your sole heart just conqueurs you're mind, body and soul. So i guess my message is, if you fall in love, let it be. Commitment isn't scary, you grow to learn commitment and it comes naturally. Like how once you have a child, you're already a mother, the skills just come naturally. Relationships do not tie you down.
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